Don’t Get Comfy

“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear.”

2 Timothy 4:3 (NIV)

In our modern world of customization and personalization, we’ve grown accustomed to having things our way. From our coffee orders to our social media feeds, we curate our experiences to match our preferences. This “have it your way” mentality has seeped into nearly every aspect of our lives, including our spiritual journeys. But when we apply this consumer mindset to our faith, we tread on dangerous ground. Paul’s warning to Timothy about “itching ears” is more relevant today than ever before.

The phrase “itching ears” paints a vivid picture. Imagine having an itch that demands to be scratched. It’s irritating, distracting, and all-consuming until it’s satisfied. In the same way, our human nature often craves teachings that affirm our desires and justify our behaviors, rather than challenge us to grow and change. This spiritual itch represents our innate desire for comfort, validation, and easy answers.

This craving for comfort can lead us down a perilous path. We might find ourselves gravitating towards preachers who always make us feel good, avoiding churches that confront sin, or interpreting Scripture in ways that conveniently align with our lifestyle choices. We may unconsciously filter out challenging messages, focusing only on parts of the Bible that seem to support our preexisting beliefs. The danger lies not in seeking encouragement or hope from God’s Word, but in exclusively pursuing messages that never challenge our status quo.

Consider the potential consequences of this approach. A faith built solely on comfortable teachings is like a house built on sand. It may feel good for a time, but it lacks the foundation to withstand life’s storms. When trials come, when our faith is tested, we may find ourselves ill-equipped to face the challenges. Moreover, a comfort-only Christianity stunts our spiritual growth, keeping us in a perpetual state of spiritual infancy.

Sound doctrine, on the other hand, is like a balanced diet. It contains both the sweet and the bitter, the easy-to-swallow and the hard-to-digest. It comforts the afflicted and afflicts the comfortable. Just as a healthy diet nourishes our bodies, sound doctrine nourishes our souls, promoting spiritual growth and maturity. It challenges our assumptions, confronts our sins, and pushes us towards Christlikeness.

The Bible itself is filled with examples of uncomfortable truths that led to transformation. Think of Nathan confronting David about his sin with Bathsheba, or Jesus telling the rich young ruler to sell all he had. These weren’t easy messages to hear, but they were necessary for genuine spiritual growth. Even Jesus’ teachings often made people uncomfortable – many of His followers left Him because His teachings were too hard to accept (John 6:60-66).

“The Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” – A.W. Tozer, a 20th-century pastor and author, reminds us of the power of God’s Word as described in Hebrews 4:12. This quote emphasizes that true biblical teaching should not merely tickle our ears but penetrate our hearts, revealing our innermost thoughts and motivations. Tozer understood that the transformative power of Scripture lies in its ability to confront, convict, and change us from the inside out.

Embracing sound doctrine doesn’t mean we should seek out teachings that are intentionally harsh or unnecessarily confrontational. The goal isn’t discomfort for discomfort’s sake. Rather, we should pursue a well-rounded spiritual diet that includes both encouragement and challenge, comfort and conviction. We need teachings that uplift us when we’re downtrodden and humble us when we’re prideful, that offer hope in our despair and correction in our waywardness.

Developing discernment is key in this process. We must learn to distinguish between sound doctrine and appealing falsehoods, between teaching that feeds our souls and teaching that merely tickles our ears. This requires a commitment to studying Scripture for ourselves, not just relying on others’ interpretations. It means being like the Bereans, who “received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true” (Acts 17:11).

As we navigate this journey, let’s also extend grace to one another. We’re all at different points in our spiritual walk, and what challenges one person may comfort another. The key is to continually open ourselves to God’s full truth, trusting that His Word, in all its complexity, is ultimately for our good and His glory.

Godseekers, let us be vigilant against the temptation to surround ourselves only with teachings that comfort but never convict. Instead, let’s cultivate a love for the whole counsel of God, even when it challenges us. Remember, true growth often occurs in moments of discomfort, when God’s truth confronts our weaknesses and calls us higher. Let’s embrace a faith that’s not just comfortable, but transformative.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, we confess our tendency to seek comfort over truth. Give us discerning hearts and minds to recognize sound doctrine. Help us embrace Your whole truth, even when it challenges us. May we find our ultimate comfort not in easy teachings, but in the transforming power of Your Word. Strengthen us to stand firm in Your truth in a world of shifting ideologies. Cultivate in us a hunger for Your Word in its entirety, not just the parts that affirm us. Help us to be humble learners, always ready to be shaped by Your truth. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Personal Reflection

  1. Can you recall a time when a biblical teaching made you uncomfortable but ultimately led to positive growth in your life?
  2. In what areas of your spiritual life might you be avoiding challenging truths in favor of more comfortable teachings?
  3. How can you cultivate a greater love for the whole counsel of God, including the parts that challenge you?
  4. Are there any teachers or sources of spiritual input in your life that might be simply “tickling your ears”? How can you ensure a more balanced spiritual diet?

Step of Faith

Today, challenge yourself to engage with a part of Scripture or a biblical teaching that you’ve previously found difficult or avoided. Ask God for insight and the courage to apply His truth, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone. Remember, growth often begins where comfort ends. Then, share what you’ve learned with a trusted friend or mentor, inviting them to join you in pursuing a more robust and challenging faith journey. Consider starting a small group dedicated to studying some of the more challenging passages of Scripture, fostering an environment where difficult questions can be asked and wrestled with in community.

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